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our life comprises of good and bad times. we all know that. we have no problem going through the good times. we even preserve them by photographs and vidoes. but what about the bad times? they can be anythis. a bad result, a turned down relationship, an unexpected turn or attitude of anyone you love. do we all know how to get along them?..some do , but for those who have been having nightmares. i have some tips for them as follows....
(1) life is a game and we should act according to it. surprisingly its our life but it gives us unwanted shocks and surprises when were not expecting it. for a moment consider your life a board game played with dices. when things are happening in your favour that means the dices are in your hands,its your turn but when your facing blues that means life is winning..if theres a hard time going on..just tell yourself..."the game will turn boss.. dont worry". because your turn is after that.
(2) the second thing that you should do while going through a bad time is not loosing hope.. now we all know that how difficult is that. but if you overcome the defeat at the spot and remain cheered. that will make you feel proud the next day. that would also awake the confidence in you which was lost a minute ago. just remain cheered and never loose hope and faith.
(3)our life is more like a movie. and our scripts are written by ALLAH. one thing i tell my friends all the time is that its not the end of the world. and this is true. if you loose a competition or get low marks in an exam. thats not the end. because you dont know what life has in store for you. one should just tell oneself that theres more to see ahead.
(4) after a hard moment hiding yourself in your room is not a bad idea. seriously. infact i think that a little crying, some music then having a nap is a good way to clear your brain. after all these things can help you analyse the whole situation and you'll know that what went wrong. and remember apologizing will not bring you one step down. rather a hundred storey upwards.
(5) our friends have troubles with the fact of "trust". most hardships occur when you dont trust the right person. a general way of not getting hurt is to only trust your parents.. one should write it on a piece of paper and stick it with gum on the back side of his brain.(please dont do that with chewing gum because that comes off very easily). my father once taught me that even if end up with a crime outside my house. i should never be scared to come home and tell my parents.their beating would be much better then getting blackmailed from some outsider. these things help in the long run.
(6) life can be made more easiser when there are small achievements everyday.have everyday resolutions. challenges like finishing a chapter in an hour or offering all the prayers in a day. even if one of these obligations are fulfilled. youre a winner!!
go ahead and follow these tips..im sure they will help you overcome your bad moments...and a little word for your good times..dont forget to write the days when youre happy. because flipping through the happy pages would also put a smile to your face and your day will be saved.